A Christmas Day like no other! Part One -‘Twas the night before Christmas…

Someone was certainly on my side today when I woke up to greet Christmas morning at St James as I thought I would ‘sleep for England’! I was EXTREMELY tired last night as I had not slept the night previously (the night when I sent you a newsletter or two!), I had had a busy day, my lift home from Innocent’s was in the front of a builders truck along with my friends Godfrey, his 13 year old daughter Abi and loads of luggage and Abi was then left with me while her dad went to Kamuli in the truck to collect his car and return to pick Abi up to take her back to her home in Jinja for Christmas.

I was very happy to spend time with Abi, I have known her since she was five BUT her dad’s hour turned into four! Abi was quite happy here and shared our meal, which by the way was cooked again by James, Grace and Livee as Fatuma had failed to return from a short visit to her family!

Godfrey did not contact us at all to say what was going on and neither James nor I had any credit left on our mobiles. Darkness fell, James said I should go to bed and leave Abi with Fatuma who had eventually returned but I didn’t want to do that. Abi said she would like to stay the night as we have shared a bed many times over the years but tomorrow was Christmas and I knew her mum and brother Amasa would be waiting for her.

We passed the time playing dominoes, talking about my daughter Sara’s wedding and laughing together. Abi is still hoping that Sara and Owen will come out to Uganda soon and get ‘married’ again as she so wanted to coming to their wedding this May and so she can be their bridesmaid! What about it Sara and Owen?

2016 is to be a very special year for St James as we are planning to have the official opening of the school and James would love it if more of his friends could make the journey to Uganda!

To all FAMILY AND FRIENDS of ST JAMES, please consider having a very different holiday, making me and James very happy and attending this VERY IMPORTANT OCCASION! But in the mean time back to the present day…..

Earlier Abi had replied to a text from Sara giving her a big surprise. Sara replied asking Abi to give me a big hug. Abi giggled and threw herself on me, smothering me for a minute then relaxing into a gently hug which lasted a long, long time. She was on her knees, arms around my waist and she fell asleep like that.

I was rather uncomfortable but somehow joined her and when we woke it was to the sound of James calling “Ladies wake up, time to go!” Godfrey had decided to go and see his grandmother ‘in the village’ which is way outside Kamuli without informing us! He did apologise but didn’t seem that concerned but that is Ugandans for you.

I love them for their simplicity and their trust that their children would be looked after regardless!

Read on…..

Innocent buys me a Nile beer at his own bar!

Dear Friends and Family,

I have left St James for a few days and come to stay with my friend Godfrey Mwase and his family who live very near Lake Victoria and the Nile. I am hoping that I will be able to catch up with a few newsletters as I have a backlog!

While James was at the hospital Innocent collected me on his motorbike and took me to visit his little business. He recently gained a degree thanks to the generosity of my friends Ruth, Marie, Kath and my family who have sponsored him. For those of you who don’t know Innocent’s story, I will tell you more about him later.

Innocent’s dream is to own a successful pig business. He has taken time to learn a lot about them and in fact I bought him one of his first pigs when I first got to know him. But setting up a piggery is an expensive challenge so to raise money he is renting a bar with rooms behind for people to stay over. It is called Mirembe Bar and Shop with lodgings. Mirembe means Peace which is rather appropriate as Innocent has had quite a rocky childhood but I know he feels more at peace now than ever before.

The bar is 15 minute motorbike ride from St James so Innocent is a regular visitor. In fact James likes him very much and often they seek each others’ advice. As you will see from the photos it is in prime position beside a taxi-bus stop. He has made it attractive with seating, shade and a pool table! Innocent was taught to play pool by my now Son-in-law Owen when he visited Uganda with my daughter Sara in 2011. Now he claims to be quite a champion which brings other players to his establishment.

I was not very sure running a bar was the right thing for Innocent but seeing him ‘in action’ I can see he has everything under control and from the people I met around Mirembe he has made lots of friends. There is a lovely family living next door who came over to greet me. Innocent tells me he sometimes gives work to the father and to others in the community. For instance he employs three barmaids and allows a ‘chicken man’ to sell his BBQ chicken at the bar on Friday and Saturday evenings.

So he is getting a good reputation and with his cool calm personality even deals with those who have had too much of the ‘good stuff’! He showed me around the rest of the building where there are four rooms for rent, one room where the waitresses stay, Innocents private room and lastly a room where he distils the local brew! I was a little surprised when he showed me this but apparently it is legal, and a good money spinner! I have tasted it just the once, but never again!

Innocent offered me a drink, a Nile Beer, but it was the middle of the day, very hot and I was travelling on his motorbike, so not a good idea BUT his expression persuaded me and he brought out an ice cold one! I hadn’t realised that he has electricity at the bar too which enables him not only to serve chilled drinks but also to offer other services such as charging mobile phones. Yet another ‘string to his bow’ good promotion for his business!

I was glad to see Innocent did not join me in a beer but had a cola. While we sat in the shade of the umbrella with a cooling breeze coming off the swamp nearby he proudly showed me an album of his Graduation photos. I was very touched when I saw included in the album photos of my family and his other friends from the UK who have helped him so much. You all mean so much to him as you changed his life!

Innocent’s mum was unmarried and when he was just six years old his father snatched him from his mother insisting he would have a better life living with him. His father married and when his stepmother had her own children Innocent was rejected by her and his dad. Eventually things got so bad he ran away and lived with his grandmother in Kamuli where I first got to know him. This rejection of children from previous relationships is common here and James tells me that this is one of the reasons he never married again after his ‘beloved wife’ Joy died in 2001, step mothers seem to have the upper hand! I hope to meet his birth mum during my stay.

I met Innocent in 2011 when I was visiting his grandmother and another of her grandchildren John Baptist Zaake who I have known since I first came to Uganda in 2002 and stayed at Maria’s Care where John lived at the time. He got on very well with Owen and Sara and became our guide and helper during their stay and looked after me when Alex had to return to school for his A levels.

I got to know him better and learnt that he had gained O & A levels and wanted to go to university to study business specialising in accountancy. He never asked me for money but I felt I should be up front with him and told him that I could be his friend but not his sponsor and that is how it was until one of what I call my ‘miracles’ occurred!

I kept in touch with Innocent when I returned to the UK; in fact he became my postman. I would email him letters for James which he would download and print out at an Internet Cafe in Kamuli then travel to St James deliver the letter, get a reply, go back to Kamuli, type it out and email to me. He proved to be a very honest and hardworking young man who often stopped to help James with one thing or another, especially giving James advice on pigs!

One day I found myself telling all who read my newsletters about Innocent and asking if anyone could help him and within a few days three people came forward to off almost the exact amount he would need for university fees. This was at the beginning of August and the new uni year started less than two weeks later. Do you see what I mean about miracles?

My family helped with his subsistence and my then future son-in-law paid for Innocent to have medical checks and drugs to help with his fits which have haunted him for several years. With Innocent’s determination and hard work, never giving up his ambition to gain his degree we were all thrilled to hear he had succeeded. He is so grateful for this opportunity and sends his thanks to all who played a part, Ruth, Maria, Kathy and my family including his ‘best friend’ Owen!

Innocent had invited me to his graduation but it was in October, too early for me to come out and stay until after Eric’s wedding and Christmas! He was allowed two guest so he invited his mum and dad but his dad bullied his mum to try and make her give up her seat to the step-mum but Innocent stood up to him. As it turned out, on the day they all got seats. Innocent’s dad is a council and church leader but treats his own son very poorly! I think Innocent must take after his mum as he is a kind gentle man.

Babies are crying! I’m writing this very early in the morning, before day break and the twin babies staying in the dormitory next to my room, have just woken up. Aisha their mum is one of the teachers who looked after this place when James visited the UK in May. They came to meet me yesterday and stayed over but will travel back to their village today.

I shall leave this now and go and make myself another cup of tea.

By for now!

Love Gerry

HAPPY CHRISTMAS FROM UGANDA!

Dear Family and Friends

I have managed to get both Internet and a little stored power on this special morning to wish you the happiest of Christmas days. Norman, Nicola and Sara I love you all so much, miss you but Im having a wonderful time BUT its RAINING!

I tried to send a Christmas text to my family at 1am but then discovered I had no credit on my phone – you’ll get it eventually when I buy more airtime in Kamuli!

I’m up early to travel into Kamuli Town to celebrate the day at James’ favourite church where we are expected to participate! Then back for a brief celebration at Mirembe (Peace) Bar with Innocent followed by a quiet Christmas dinner with James, Fatuma, Livee, Grace and two of his friends. I have already thanked and apologised to the chicken that is enjoying his last meal!

This afternoon is the football match postponed from Tuesday – The local team called Poynton against a team from Jinja – we won 3-1 in the last match so I am ready with my banner and chants to cheer them on later – IF IT STOPS RAINING!!

This will be my second Christmas, my first was on Tuesday 23rd, Pork Day, in Uganda except for the Muslin population. ALL James’ family came to St James for a special meal of pork, chapatti, mandazzi, bananas, and pineapple. Livee helped decorate the oldest mango tree and place gifts I had brought from the UK for the children and James, in and around the tree.

After the family left James and I walked into further into Nakakabala to greet many friends and had a wonderful welcome.

My battery is just about to run out so once again thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your love and interest in this amazing, wonderful, loving place that is St James and all the community who benefit.

HAPPY CHRISTMAS!

Even more about St James!

Since I arrived here and told James we had raised some funds for Joy Clinic he has been busy sourcing materials because as it gets nearer Christmas prices will go sky high, delivery men will not want to work and worst of all there may not be bricks available as the dry season is taking a real hold now and to make bricks you have to have lots of water readily available.

So each morning he goes off early to the different areas where he might find what is needed. The good news is that he has managed to get enough just enough bricks to finish the main structure of the clinic, the small wards at the back and even better news the sister of a friend of mine owns a tipper truck and has offered it to us free of charge to deliver all the materials. We just have to pay the driver and for the fuel. So that will save us a few shillings!

The kitchen is now complete so meals can be cooked without the risk of the fire going out in the rainy season. The wood saving oven is working well too and uses so little wood and the smoke goes up the chimney not into lungs! Both the kitchen and the oven were great additions to St James financed in part by the parents.

Hambridge Hall looks and is amazing with its folding doors dividing it up into classrooms and the 200 desks many of you sponsored look very smart and ready for their pupils! We have employed a local man to paint your names on them. He has no work, a family to feed and school fees to pay.

Today he has been working on the desks all day and is coming back tomorrow to finish the job. We are paying him just 20,000 Ugandan Shillings, £5. James is also going to ask him to paint rings on some of the trees in Ugandan colours black, yellow, red. I’m not so keen, as I love the ‘natural’ look of the compound but Ugandans love to brighten things up for Christmas. I just hope the trees don’t mind!

Actually talking of trees, when I first arrived here this time and James was taking me around the compound I kept thinking someone was throwing stones on to the iron sheet roofs. It worried me but James didn’t seem to notice or was not bothered about it. After several incidents I had to tell him of my ‘discomfort’ but he just laughed.

The sound was of dry pods off a particular tree bursting and spreading their big seeds, some of which were hitting the roof tops! The other tree news is that James was quite sad when his Avocado tree had to be chopped down just as it was about to fruit. It was in the way of the clinic! He loves his flowers and trees which is why this compound is so beautiful, relaxing and shady.

Fatuma is looking after my every need though sometimes we get a little confused as she speaks and understands no English but is beginning to understand my regular requests though I think more through combination of mime and hand gestures rather than words. I bet by the time I leave here she will understand quite a bit of English. Fatuma had very little schooling as unfortunately a lot of Muslim girls in Uganda still don’t; the ‘boy child’ is the important one but not here at St James!

Livingstone, Leevi for short, is learning very quickly so that will be a great advantage when he starts school here in February. He is also very hard working and keen to learn. Single handed he cleans this big compound every day, feeds the chickens and takes the goats to graze. James is beginning to think he will make a very good farmer one day and in the meantime he will be taught everything he needs to know from the Master as he calls James!

Livingstone also seems to know when I have ‘visitors’ that need shooing out of my room particularly the chickens that want to escape Mickey but he always finds them! I’m looking forward to spending Christmas day with him here along with James, Grace and two of his friends. I am planning some surprises! I think first I will get Leevi to start painting paper and making paper chains with it!

I have just noticed through the holes of the lace table cloth my laptop is on, a tiny creature moving and on closer inspection it looks like a baby lizard! It is squirming around. Not sure what is best to do with it. He’s rather cute but doesn’t understand English either! I’ve not been bothered too much with critters this time around though on my arrival I thought I would be. There was a horrible smell coming from a big laundry bag I store my ‘bathroom’ equipment so I opened it with dread and many of the items had chunks out of them. A mouse or two had been nesting in there and it really stank!

I got Grace to take it outside and he and Leevi went through it. The mat I stand on when I step out of my baby-bath had been chewed up and taken inside my small jerry-can making cosy nesting material, my flip-flops had been redesigned, and everything else was nibbled and poohed on! The worst thing of all was that they had chewed around the plastic spout of my little kettle I bought specially to boil water for my early morning cuppa.

Everything was returned to me after cleaning but the kettle still stank and I thought there was no way of me ever being able to use it again BUT with a my old toothbrush and some Uganda ‘block’ soap and hot water eventually the smell disappeared and after boiling the kettle a few times I took the decision that it should be ok and it has been, now many cups of tea later I am ok!

James has assured me that there are no mice around now as he has a cat. I laughed when he introduced me to Mickey – he wasn’t much bigger than a mouse and to look at him he hadn’t caught any lately! He’s a lovely little kitten though and follows James around everywhere and when James is out he comes to me.

I love watching him amongst the chickens and goats as he plays with their tails and feathers. He’s not frightened of them and they seem to tolerate him. James is a real Doctor Doolittle. He befriends all the animals and talks to them gaining their trust and respect. Honestly he really does, it’s amazing! I will have to try and get hold of the Doctor Doolittle film and bring it to him next year! Jonny and Joy James’s grandchildren asked their Dada to name the kitten Mickey after their rabbit that got stolen.

James has also purchased two ‘guard dogs’ but they seem to be as soft as the kitten and they love James, though to begin with barked at me each time I went to the bathroom! They are tied up in the shade of a tree during the day and once I am in my room at night James lets them go. For a few minutes I hear them barking, I think with happiness of being free then they go quiet for the rest of the night hopefully doing their job if someone strange comes to call. It’s a good thing I have ‘en suite’ facilities as I would hate to chance my luck by walking to the latrine at night as I might find the dogs are angels in disguise!

There seems to be very few mosquitoes at the moment but I still take precautions as one bite can be so irritating. At dusk I bathe in cold water, surprisingly not too cold as I expected it to be straight from the borehole, just cold enough to make me jump when I pour the first jug full over my head! Then I cover my exposed skin with high strength insect repellent, 50% Deet which is horrible stuff and makes me choke but I know it is not worth the risk not to use it. It also melts plastics and synthetic substances so I have to be very careful to rub it in carefully and wash my hands thoroughly afterwards as in the past I have melted laptop keyboards, cameras, spectacle frames etc. No wonder it keeps mosquitoes at bay!

I still get tiny flies coming through my brand new treated mosquito net but they are harmless. As I type they are buzzing around my head torch and laptop screen. Actually not buzzing, they are silent! I occasionally squash one that gets a bit too annoying but most of them just disappear once the light source has gone off.

Today we have had a visit from one of the teachers who has 1 year old twin girls, they are so cute and don’t seem to worry about my colour. Aisha came specially to greet me and is staying the night as her home is a long way from here. When I went to bathe earlier they were wondering around stark naked except for their pretty beaded hair extensions. Oh the freedom of the young! I can’t remember if I told you that I cooled down one day under the running borehole – must send the proof!

James has changed his mind about painting the rings on the trees realising the money for the paint could be better spent. Thank goodness!

Before I finish I must tell you about an email I received from the Head of St Pauls Primary School in Poynton. I have added it below. I am sure Nora will not mind me sharing it with you. It certainly gave me a lump in my throat and brought tears to my eyes. I am so lucky and privileged to me involved in St James and to know all of you who have helped in so many ways.

THANK YOU!

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ST PAUL’S PRIMARY HEAD
Marley Road, Poynton, Cheshire, SK12 1LY
Telephone: 01625 383040
‘Aspire not to have more but to be more’
Archbishop Oscar Romero

Dear Gerry and James

I am bursting with happiness as I write this email.

At the start of each of our Christmas performances I showed a PowerPoint presentation and I spoke to the audience to highlight the wonderful works that are going on at St James and I also listed the cost of the build for next stage of the new medical centre.

As a school, we have raised £407.66!

But the good news doesn’t stop there…

I was approached by a child’s relative yesterday who attended a performance and saw the PowerPoint and heard me speak…

He has said that he wants to donate anonymously, the difference between the money the school has raised, and the £750 needed for the next stage of the medical centre!

I have received a letter from him this morning confirming our conversation!

SO YOU NOW HAVE ALL THE MONEY NEEDED TO BUILD THE NEXT STAGE OF THE MEDICAL CENTRE!!!!

Although the gentleman wants to remain anonymous, I can confirm that he is not a wealthy man, but a man who has been moved by the good works you and Mr James are doing for the children and the community.

I shall get a school cheque to your husband as soon as possible for the school amount and then arrange payment of the anonymous donation once it has been received. Please ask your husband to make contact with the school so we can do this before we finish on Friday.

God is good! 🙂

My love and hugs to you all

Nora Armstrong-Boyle (Mrs)

At last, little about St James

I apologise for not being in touch since I arrived at St James. We have been so busy with one thing or another including just sitting, relaxing and trying to keep cool as now we are away from the cool breezes of Lake Victoria and the Nile the heat has intensified! Even James bathes in cold water several times a day and tells me it will get even hotter in January!

Each day brings visitors to greet me, many the parents of children who come to the school already and others who want their children to attend St James. Otherwise it is very quiet here with just James, Fatuma my ‘maid’ and ten year old Livingstone who has no relatives who want him and James could not find a foster home for him for the holiday period.

James was told he was lazy, disobedient and rude but I have seen no sign of this. With James’ fatherly love and guidance he has found a real home. He has had little education as no-one wanted to spend time or money on him but here he is learning fast and not just his ABC! James is training him to look after the chicken project in George’s Den and he delighted in showing me around.

The building has been improved for the birds with concrete floor covered in maize husks and plastered walls so no termites can enter. Most of the chickens were out and about, really free range but there were two hens sitting on large batches of eggs.

James will be selling some of the chickens over the Christmas period as he gets a good price and this applies to the goats too then he will buy more in the New Year when prices are low. So I hope those of you who have sponsored an animal won’t mind waiting for a photo until then!

The pigs are few at the moment as we needed to build a better sty for them which we have been gradually doing. Hopefully this will hopefully be completed by the time I leave with many new piglets moved in. No one likes to work over the two weeks of Christmas but James is making arrangements for the work to start on the piggery immediately afterwards. This applies to Joy Clinic too.

The roof is now on the two consulting rooms at the front of the building but we need to complete the delivery room and sickbay at the rear. Thanks to all of you who have contributed in some way big or small. I am always telling friends of St James, particularly children that every penny really does come out here and is spent very wisely!

Be back very soon I hope!

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